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		<title>By: In the name of progress: My problems with Unscientific Malaysia &#124; Unscientific Malaysia</title>
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		<dc:creator>In the name of progress: My problems with Unscientific Malaysia &#124; Unscientific Malaysia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2011 05:50:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] are already within the movement itself, as they find it necessary, as Plait goes to demonstrate in a later blog post, to silence themselves from what they rightly perceive as harsh criticism for their irrational [...] </description>
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		<title>By: ﻿In The Name of Progress: My Problems with Unscientific Malaysia. &#124; Kakak Killjoy</title>
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		<dc:creator>﻿In The Name of Progress: My Problems with Unscientific Malaysia. &#124; Kakak Killjoy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2011 16:08:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] are already within the movement itself, as they find it necessary, as Plait goes to demonstrate in a later blog post, to silence themselves from what they rightly perceive as harsh criticism for their irrational [...] </description>
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		<title>By: Yanping</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yanping</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2010 05:28:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bunny Goodrich: Would you please shut up already. You&#039;re a sad sack of a human being and a one-trick pony. You&#039;re incapable of uttering a coherent sentence without a sexual reference or bragging about your made-up scholastic achievements. You&#039;re a nurse, whatever. So is half of the Philippines. And you&#039;re a microbiologist inasmuch as it was your major in college. You don&#039;t have a PhD in Virology yet you keep telling everyone you planned on getting one, and your &quot;Doctoral Candidate&quot; claims are as hollow and the degree you know you&#039;ll never get. Only an insecure person would incessantly route their bio and resume every time they fart. Get a life and grow up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bunny Goodrich: Would you please shut up already. You&#8217;re a sad sack of a human being and a one-trick pony. You&#8217;re incapable of uttering a coherent sentence without a sexual reference or bragging about your made-up scholastic achievements. You&#8217;re a nurse, whatever. So is half of the Philippines. And you&#8217;re a microbiologist inasmuch as it was your major in college. You don&#8217;t have a PhD in Virology yet you keep telling everyone you planned on getting one, and your &#8220;Doctoral Candidate&#8221; claims are as hollow and the degree you know you&#8217;ll never get. Only an insecure person would incessantly route their bio and resume every time they fart. Get a life and grow up.</p>
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		<title>By: Let us be who we say we are. A call to Skeptics&#8230; &#171; The Great American Desert</title>
		<link>http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/badastronomy/2010/08/19/dont-be-a-dick-part-3-the-aftermath/#comment-249789</link>
		<dc:creator>Let us be who we say we are. A call to Skeptics&#8230; &#171; The Great American Desert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Nov 2010 20:36:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] it is well worth your time, and you also would be well to read Plait&#8217;s posts (here, here, and here) about the general reaction to his [...] </description>
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		<title>By: Tom Rhoads</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom Rhoads</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Oct 2010 12:35:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent talk and I really respect you for putting yourself out there like that. I think the hug that you got from the incredible Pamela Gay was well deserved.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent talk and I really respect you for putting yourself out there like that. I think the hug that you got from the incredible Pamela Gay was well deserved.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2010 00:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alright you ignorant atheists... if there is no god, then HOW DOES THE SUN KEEP ORBITING THE EARTH?  BAM!

  You see people, that&#039;s how you deal with atheist skum.  With LOGIC!  Hit that bullseye and the rest of the dominoes will come down like a house of cards... CHECKMATE!

And on that note...

Dunt dun duuh DAAAAHHHH!

!!!!!!!!!MY ATHEIST STORE!!!!!!!!!

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.zazzle.com/briman232*&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Aristotle&#039;s Muse&lt;/a&gt;

This is my store.  Maybe wearing an atheist T-shirt won&#039;t change the world, but enough of them just might.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alright you ignorant atheists&#8230; if there is no god, then HOW DOES THE SUN KEEP ORBITING THE EARTH?  BAM!</p>
<p>  You see people, that&#8217;s how you deal with atheist skum.  With LOGIC!  Hit that bullseye and the rest of the dominoes will come down like a house of cards&#8230; CHECKMATE!</p>
<p>And on that note&#8230;</p>
<p>Dunt dun duuh DAAAAHHHH!</p>
<p>!!!!!!!!!MY ATHEIST STORE!!!!!!!!!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.zazzle.com/briman232*" rel="nofollow">Aristotle&#8217;s Muse</a></p>
<p>This is my store.  Maybe wearing an atheist T-shirt won&#8217;t change the world, but enough of them just might.</p>
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		<title>By: Red</title>
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		<dc:creator>Red</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 19:14:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, we&#039;re all working toward making a happy life four us and ours.  Unfortunately lots of other people have lots of other goals their working toward.  And those goals include taking rights and dignity from others.  Many christians want to bring about the end of days.  I don&#039;t want that.  We&#039;re not working toward that same goal.  Many reiki practitioners want all insurance companies to pay for it.  I don&#039;t want that.  We&#039;re not working toward that same goal.

&quot;We&#039;re all in this together&quot; sure sounds nice, but the reality is not nearly so pleasant.  There really are people in the world that actually want us dead because of what we don&#039;t believe.  I don&#039;t think they can be reasoned out of that position.

Education and reason works for a select few, whom I think would shed their delusions with or without us.  Thinking that it will work on a large percentage of the population seems to be an exercise in futility.  I&#039;d be tickled pink if nearly everybody could be persuaded with logic and reason.  My experience, however, tells me that&#039;s not the case.  So at some point I&#039;ve got to be logical about my own expectations and methods and realize that a shift in aim and strategy is probably warranted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, we&#8217;re all working toward making a happy life four us and ours.  Unfortunately lots of other people have lots of other goals their working toward.  And those goals include taking rights and dignity from others.  Many christians want to bring about the end of days.  I don&#8217;t want that.  We&#8217;re not working toward that same goal.  Many reiki practitioners want all insurance companies to pay for it.  I don&#8217;t want that.  We&#8217;re not working toward that same goal.</p>
<p>&#8220;We&#8217;re all in this together&#8221; sure sounds nice, but the reality is not nearly so pleasant.  There really are people in the world that actually want us dead because of what we don&#8217;t believe.  I don&#8217;t think they can be reasoned out of that position.</p>
<p>Education and reason works for a select few, whom I think would shed their delusions with or without us.  Thinking that it will work on a large percentage of the population seems to be an exercise in futility.  I&#8217;d be tickled pink if nearly everybody could be persuaded with logic and reason.  My experience, however, tells me that&#8217;s not the case.  So at some point I&#8217;ve got to be logical about my own expectations and methods and realize that a shift in aim and strategy is probably warranted.</p>
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		<title>By: Angie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 18:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;This study assumes everyone is playing the same game, working toward a common goal.&quot;

Aren&#039;t we, for the most part, working toward a common goal and isn&#039;t cooperation also preferable?  Perhaps you think not, but I continue to think that people have enough in common to do so.  We all seem to want to get through life with as little true suffering as possible, and extend that to not wanting to watch other people suffer either.  There are many obstacles to acknowledging that we&#039;re all playing the same game, but most of us are anyway.  Creating more &quot;us&quot; and &quot;them&quot; situations just muddies the field.

I really don&#039;t think using the same silencing methods that were used to combat racism and sexism over the last 50 years are the most effective tools.  Look at the evidence we have today that bigotry of all sorts has been bubbling under the surface somewhat quietly for years, only to be brought to light again, as ugly as ever.  I don&#039;t think it&#039;s a truly effective method, this attempt to shame people into keeping their mouths shut.  Education and reason worked for many people, and I think that&#039;s the way to go.

But we can certainly differ in opinion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;This study assumes everyone is playing the same game, working toward a common goal.&#8221;</p>
<p>Aren&#8217;t we, for the most part, working toward a common goal and isn&#8217;t cooperation also preferable?  Perhaps you think not, but I continue to think that people have enough in common to do so.  We all seem to want to get through life with as little true suffering as possible, and extend that to not wanting to watch other people suffer either.  There are many obstacles to acknowledging that we&#8217;re all playing the same game, but most of us are anyway.  Creating more &#8220;us&#8221; and &#8220;them&#8221; situations just muddies the field.</p>
<p>I really don&#8217;t think using the same silencing methods that were used to combat racism and sexism over the last 50 years are the most effective tools.  Look at the evidence we have today that bigotry of all sorts has been bubbling under the surface somewhat quietly for years, only to be brought to light again, as ugly as ever.  I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s a truly effective method, this attempt to shame people into keeping their mouths shut.  Education and reason worked for many people, and I think that&#8217;s the way to go.</p>
<p>But we can certainly differ in opinion.</p>
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		<title>By: Red</title>
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		<dc:creator>Red</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 20:27:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;BTW, here is one study that I found interesting.

http://www.physorg.com/news125155198.html&quot;

Interesting, but not relevant to what I&#039;m talking about.  This study assumes everyone is playing the same game, working toward a common goal.  It says that punishment doesn&#039;t lead to increased cooperation.

That&#039;s all well and good, but when I&#039;m dealing with a recalcitrant believer, I don&#039;t want cooperation.  I&#039;ve already tried that and he doesn&#039;t move.  If he is unwilling or unable to honestly consider his beliefs and continues to proclaim them publicly, my only goal at that point is to get him to quiet down and to let others see the ridiculousness of his position.  It&#039;s about creating peer pressure against those beliefs.  It&#039;s about getting people to say &quot;wow, that guy really looks silly, I&#039;m sure not going to say the kinds of things he says&quot;.

Is that being a dick?  Maybe.  But we&#039;re not going to win everyone over to our way of thinking.  In fact, we&#039;re not going to win very many over.  I think we should be focused on mitigating the harmful effects of magic belief more than trying to get everyone to agree with us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;BTW, here is one study that I found interesting.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.physorg.com/news125155198.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.physorg.com/news125155198.html</a>&#8221;</p>
<p>Interesting, but not relevant to what I&#8217;m talking about.  This study assumes everyone is playing the same game, working toward a common goal.  It says that punishment doesn&#8217;t lead to increased cooperation.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s all well and good, but when I&#8217;m dealing with a recalcitrant believer, I don&#8217;t want cooperation.  I&#8217;ve already tried that and he doesn&#8217;t move.  If he is unwilling or unable to honestly consider his beliefs and continues to proclaim them publicly, my only goal at that point is to get him to quiet down and to let others see the ridiculousness of his position.  It&#8217;s about creating peer pressure against those beliefs.  It&#8217;s about getting people to say &#8220;wow, that guy really looks silly, I&#8217;m sure not going to say the kinds of things he says&#8221;.</p>
<p>Is that being a dick?  Maybe.  But we&#8217;re not going to win everyone over to our way of thinking.  In fact, we&#8217;re not going to win very many over.  I think we should be focused on mitigating the harmful effects of magic belief more than trying to get everyone to agree with us.</p>
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		<title>By: Red</title>
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		<dc:creator>Red</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 20:19:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Angie

Do you really think a series of studies that demonstrated solid evidence for what does cause autism would actually make Jenny McCarthy change her mind?

I do contribute money to that cause, but I also correct people when they say vaccines are the cause (because while we may not know what does cause it, we know for a fact it isn&#039;t vaccines).  When those people refuse to listen to the facts and rational arguments I present, I see no reason to continue being nice or even polite to them.

I think the problem you and I are having is in describing the mindset of believers.  You seem to think (please correct me if I&#039;m wrong) that they believe what they believe because they don&#039;t have enough information or haven&#039;t been exposed to the facts.  While I agree that is the case for some, I think there is something deeper than that.  To paraphrase Dr. House: if logic and reason worked on believers, we wouldn&#039;t have any more believers around.  I think there is a big cultural component to belief and while they can believe almost any amount of ridiculous things without fear of having to be accountable for those beliefs, they will almost certainly continue to do so.  I also think that if someone is so inclined to abandon those beliefs, they don&#039;t need any help from us to do so.  Deconversion is a deeply personal process and while someone might get a little bit of information from us, they&#039;re going to do most of the work alone.  Plus, all the facts and arguments they need are already out there.  We don&#039;t need to reinvent the wheel here.

I think the best we can do is create situations where the believer must face  his beliefs and give them honest consideration.  I also think it&#039;s tough to create those situations without hurting some feelings.  And keep in mind, the truth, no matter how nicely you put it, is going to hurt some feelings.  What I fear is that we&#039;re more concerned with hurting feelings than we are with speaking truth.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angie</p>
<p>Do you really think a series of studies that demonstrated solid evidence for what does cause autism would actually make Jenny McCarthy change her mind?</p>
<p>I do contribute money to that cause, but I also correct people when they say vaccines are the cause (because while we may not know what does cause it, we know for a fact it isn&#8217;t vaccines).  When those people refuse to listen to the facts and rational arguments I present, I see no reason to continue being nice or even polite to them.</p>
<p>I think the problem you and I are having is in describing the mindset of believers.  You seem to think (please correct me if I&#8217;m wrong) that they believe what they believe because they don&#8217;t have enough information or haven&#8217;t been exposed to the facts.  While I agree that is the case for some, I think there is something deeper than that.  To paraphrase Dr. House: if logic and reason worked on believers, we wouldn&#8217;t have any more believers around.  I think there is a big cultural component to belief and while they can believe almost any amount of ridiculous things without fear of having to be accountable for those beliefs, they will almost certainly continue to do so.  I also think that if someone is so inclined to abandon those beliefs, they don&#8217;t need any help from us to do so.  Deconversion is a deeply personal process and while someone might get a little bit of information from us, they&#8217;re going to do most of the work alone.  Plus, all the facts and arguments they need are already out there.  We don&#8217;t need to reinvent the wheel here.</p>
<p>I think the best we can do is create situations where the believer must face  his beliefs and give them honest consideration.  I also think it&#8217;s tough to create those situations without hurting some feelings.  And keep in mind, the truth, no matter how nicely you put it, is going to hurt some feelings.  What I fear is that we&#8217;re more concerned with hurting feelings than we are with speaking truth.</p>
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