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		<title>By: Jan</title>
		<link>http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/cosmicvariance/2005/11/21/asking-for-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7339</link>
		<dc:creator>Jan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2005 22:41:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;One in three people think that if the victim disagreed with things that the murderer said, and debated with them, that they were at least partially responsible for being murdered.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

In a sense, I agree. Let&#039;s say I&#039;m in a small village in Pakistan, and start  some heated discussion about politics and religion, and I hold the view  GWB is absoluteley right in everything and muslims will go to hell anyway.  At the end of the debate, I eventually get killed.

Aside from ethical issues, I think I would be &quot;at least partially responsible for the murder&quot;. By responsibility I mean there is a probablistic causal relationship. (like &quot;smoking is responsible for cancer&quot;)

Or I can take

&lt;blockquote&gt;More than a quarter believe victims are responsible if they wear clothing that hints at violence, such as camouflage jackets or trousers, or jackboots.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

if I go trekking to a territory of ongoing civil war, by wearing camouflage uniform I increase the probability of beeing mistaken for resistance fighter and accidentaly killed. Again, I would agree part of responsibility is on me.

Last, Urijah&#039;s point is valid  - killing is in almost all cases non-consensual and it is clear to both parties. Having sex is usually consensual. I&#039;d guess the most common defence of rapists is &quot;the victim actually wanted sex&quot;. It seems probable at least part of them at least partially believs so. The obvious provocative question is, whether sexy clothing, alcohol and promiscuity contributes to the misunderstading.

...strange where one can get searching for something on interpretations of quathum mechanis.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>One in three people think that if the victim disagreed with things that the murderer said, and debated with them, that they were at least partially responsible for being murdered.</p></blockquote>
<p>In a sense, I agree. Let&#8217;s say I&#8217;m in a small village in Pakistan, and start  some heated discussion about politics and religion, and I hold the view  GWB is absoluteley right in everything and muslims will go to hell anyway.  At the end of the debate, I eventually get killed.</p>
<p>Aside from ethical issues, I think I would be &#8220;at least partially responsible for the murder&#8221;. By responsibility I mean there is a probablistic causal relationship. (like &#8220;smoking is responsible for cancer&#8221;)</p>
<p>Or I can take</p>
<blockquote><p>More than a quarter believe victims are responsible if they wear clothing that hints at violence, such as camouflage jackets or trousers, or jackboots.</p></blockquote>
<p>if I go trekking to a territory of ongoing civil war, by wearing camouflage uniform I increase the probability of beeing mistaken for resistance fighter and accidentaly killed. Again, I would agree part of responsibility is on me.</p>
<p>Last, Urijah&#8217;s point is valid  &#8211; killing is in almost all cases non-consensual and it is clear to both parties. Having sex is usually consensual. I&#8217;d guess the most common defence of rapists is &#8220;the victim actually wanted sex&#8221;. It seems probable at least part of them at least partially believs so. The obvious provocative question is, whether sexy clothing, alcohol and promiscuity contributes to the misunderstading.</p>
<p>&#8230;strange where one can get searching for something on interpretations of quathum mechanis.</p>
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		<title>By: serial catowner</title>
		<link>http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/cosmicvariance/2005/11/21/asking-for-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7338</link>
		<dc:creator>serial catowner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 17:52:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Some years ago I worked in a hospital that got all the trauma victims.  They had been beaten, stabbe, and run over with cars.  Eventually I figured out that all of these people had two things in common- they had been drinking, late at night.

Read your local crime stories, and you&#039;ll find the same thing.

The public, as we know, is uneducated.  Please don&#039;t be too hard on them if they think some things are just asking for trouble.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some years ago I worked in a hospital that got all the trauma victims.  They had been beaten, stabbe, and run over with cars.  Eventually I figured out that all of these people had two things in common- they had been drinking, late at night.</p>
<p>Read your local crime stories, and you&#8217;ll find the same thing.</p>
<p>The public, as we know, is uneducated.  Please don&#8217;t be too hard on them if they think some things are just asking for trouble.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 13:10:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Urijah, analogies are seldom exact. This one is good enough for my purposes here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Urijah, analogies are seldom exact. This one is good enough for my purposes here.</p>
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		<title>By: Torbjorn Larsson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Torbjorn Larsson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 12:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;they should be bleating about the &quot;rights&quot; of rapists,&quot;

If I remember correctly some (many. most?) rapists have themselves been abused. But, for example, you being beaten doesn&#039;t give you the right to beat a third part at another time.

Amnesty is, as far as I know, against death penalty on first principles; a civilised society is presumed to not use it. Of course that is a value judgement, but apparently they think that some moral behaviour can be expected from a country.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;they should be bleating about the &#8220;rights&#8221; of rapists,&#8221;</p>
<p>If I remember correctly some (many. most?) rapists have themselves been abused. But, for example, you being beaten doesn&#8217;t give you the right to beat a third part at another time.</p>
<p>Amnesty is, as far as I know, against death penalty on first principles; a civilised society is presumed to not use it. Of course that is a value judgement, but apparently they think that some moral behaviour can be expected from a country.</p>
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		<title>By: Fyodor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fyodor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 06:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, Mark, sorry. Then modify &quot;you guys&quot; to &quot;those guys&quot;. The point is still a valid one: people who sneer at law-and-order enthusiasts should be consistent. It is precisely this kind of thing that has caused the collapse of whatever credibility Amnesty ever had. If Amnesty were consistent, they should be bleating about the &quot;rights&quot; of rapists, just as they drone on about those poor marginalized unfortunates on death row.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, Mark, sorry. Then modify &#8220;you guys&#8221; to &#8220;those guys&#8221;. The point is still a valid one: people who sneer at law-and-order enthusiasts should be consistent. It is precisely this kind of thing that has caused the collapse of whatever credibility Amnesty ever had. If Amnesty were consistent, they should be bleating about the &#8220;rights&#8221; of rapists, just as they drone on about those poor marginalized unfortunates on death row.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael D</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 06:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An extra point to keep in mind which the survey/article doesn&#039;t specifically mention is their definition of rape.

For the &#039;average&#039; public (whoever that is) there could be a difference between a physically brutal rape by a complete stranger, and that of a close friend who doesn&#039;t take &quot;no&quot; seriously. We could perhaps also ask what % would respond that unwanted sex in a marriage is rape?


In many countries it was only recently (10-20 years?) that rape within marriage was considered a criminal offence!

Changing society&#039;s view on what constitutes rape is as important as the question of responsibility.

m</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An extra point to keep in mind which the survey/article doesn&#8217;t specifically mention is their definition of rape.</p>
<p>For the &#8216;average&#8217; public (whoever that is) there could be a difference between a physically brutal rape by a complete stranger, and that of a close friend who doesn&#8217;t take &#8220;no&#8221; seriously. We could perhaps also ask what % would respond that unwanted sex in a marriage is rape?</p>
<p>In many countries it was only recently (10-20 years?) that rape within marriage was considered a criminal offence!</p>
<p>Changing society&#8217;s view on what constitutes rape is as important as the question of responsibility.</p>
<p>m</p>
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		<title>By: Urijah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Urijah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 05:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your comparison is flawed; there is never any ambiguity whether you want to be killed or not, there can be ambiguity whether the sex was consensual or not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your comparison is flawed; there is never any ambiguity whether you want to be killed or not, there can be ambiguity whether the sex was consensual or not.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 03:27:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fyodor - I would suggest you not try to tar me with such a broad brush. What crimes have I shown an eagerness to blame on &quot;underprivileged backgrounds&quot;? Your little rant seems somewhat uncalled for, but perhaps you can correct me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fyodor &#8211; I would suggest you not try to tar me with such a broad brush. What crimes have I shown an eagerness to blame on &#8220;underprivileged backgrounds&#8221;? Your little rant seems somewhat uncalled for, but perhaps you can correct me.</p>
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		<title>By: citrine</title>
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		<dc:creator>citrine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 03:13:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mark,

I agree with you on making the distinction between the usual culprits - clothing and the woman&#039;s sexual history - from other factors when discussing susceptibility to the crime.

As for the attitudes of presumably cosmopolitan and educated (?) people towards rape, you may be surprised. I knew a male medical student and a female statistics grad student who both believe that the woman is to blame.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark,</p>
<p>I agree with you on making the distinction between the usual culprits &#8211; clothing and the woman&#8217;s sexual history &#8211; from other factors when discussing susceptibility to the crime.</p>
<p>As for the attitudes of presumably cosmopolitan and educated (?) people towards rape, you may be surprised. I knew a male medical student and a female statistics grad student who both believe that the woman is to blame.</p>
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		<title>By: Fyodor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fyodor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2005 02:45:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Let me begin by saying that I, too, am disgusted by the idea that there could ever be any kind of excuse for rape.
Having said that, I must also say that I find it strange indeed that *this particular crime* brings out the tough law-and-order personality in liberals. After all, you guys are eager to blame many other crimes on &quot;underprivileged backgrounds&quot;, &quot;marginalization&quot; etc etc etc. So why not ask whether rapists had difficult childhoods etc etc etc? The poor guys, they must have been sexually marginalized! Yes, it&#039;s bullshit, but so is all the talk about how the &quot;scum&quot; [merci Monsieur Sarkozy!] in Paris are really victims of le marginalisation francaise.....
&quot;Society...does not exist!&quot;....Margaret T.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let me begin by saying that I, too, am disgusted by the idea that there could ever be any kind of excuse for rape.<br />
Having said that, I must also say that I find it strange indeed that *this particular crime* brings out the tough law-and-order personality in liberals. After all, you guys are eager to blame many other crimes on &#8220;underprivileged backgrounds&#8221;, &#8220;marginalization&#8221; etc etc etc. So why not ask whether rapists had difficult childhoods etc etc etc? The poor guys, they must have been sexually marginalized! Yes, it&#8217;s bullshit, but so is all the talk about how the &#8220;scum&#8221; [merci Monsieur Sarkozy!] in Paris are really victims of le marginalisation francaise&#8230;..<br />
&#8220;Society&#8230;does not exist!&#8221;&#8230;.Margaret T.</p>
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