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		<title>By: anonymous liberal anti-feminist</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonymous liberal anti-feminist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 21:12:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Simple Truth that any honest observer will have to admit: Feminist professors in humanities departments m today make far more sexist comments and show far more hatred towards men - officially and in print - than Feynman ever did towards women.

Today a majority of medical students, law students and mba students are women; in addition to the humanities. But in the &#039;sexist past&#039; all these subjects were equally dominated by men. You apparently claim that scientists are more sexist than doctors and lawyers - but is it not reasoable to consider other possibilities: men are simply more interested in science, or more realistically biases against men and boys (that&#039;s right) in other areas with artificial entry barriers makes them go into other areas.

Incidentally MBA&#039;s, medical doctors, and lawyers all earn far more money than scientists - maybe that is the reason for the lack of women in science!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Simple Truth that any honest observer will have to admit: Feminist professors in humanities departments m today make far more sexist comments and show far more hatred towards men &#8211; officially and in print &#8211; than Feynman ever did towards women.</p>
<p>Today a majority of medical students, law students and mba students are women; in addition to the humanities. But in the &#8217;sexist past&#8217; all these subjects were equally dominated by men. You apparently claim that scientists are more sexist than doctors and lawyers &#8211; but is it not reasoable to consider other possibilities: men are simply more interested in science, or more realistically biases against men and boys (that&#8217;s right) in other areas with artificial entry barriers makes them go into other areas.</p>
<p>Incidentally MBA&#8217;s, medical doctors, and lawyers all earn far more money than scientists &#8211; maybe that is the reason for the lack of women in science!</p>
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		<title>By: Michael A. Gottlieb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael A. Gottlieb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 21:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All you people making strong pronouncements about Feynman&#039;s character make me laugh; you impress me as a bunch of gossips.

How many of you knew Feynman?  How many of you know someone that knew Feynman?  I would wager that none of the outspoken posters in this thread have any real experience of what Feynman was like - you can&#039;t tell what a person is like from reading books and articles.

Feynman was a human being, OK? Albeit a very smart one. He was not always perfect in all respects. Are any of us?

[As for The Feynman Lectures on Physics (FLP), also mentioned above, please don&#039;t forget that Feynman was not their sole author - Matthew Sands and Robert Leighton were also authors of FLP.  In fact the whole project was Matt Sands&#039; idea, and Feynman did none of the actual writing.  If you ever listen to the (commercially available) tapes of the lectures on which the books are based and compare them to what is written in the books you will see that they are by _no means_ merely a transcription. Feynman was incredibly brilliant but sometimes not completely clear - sometimes far from clear - as is the case for most people speaking extemporaneously.  Leighton&#039;s and Sands&#039; great contribution to FLP was to &quot;translate &#039;Feynmanese&#039; into English&quot; (as Leighton jokingly puts it in his Oral History at the Caltech Archives), and they did a great job, though they are rarely recognized for it.]

Michael A. Gottlieb
Physics Department
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All you people making strong pronouncements about Feynman&#8217;s character make me laugh; you impress me as a bunch of gossips.</p>
<p>How many of you knew Feynman?  How many of you know someone that knew Feynman?  I would wager that none of the outspoken posters in this thread have any real experience of what Feynman was like &#8211; you can&#8217;t tell what a person is like from reading books and articles.</p>
<p>Feynman was a human being, OK? Albeit a very smart one. He was not always perfect in all respects. Are any of us?</p>
<p>[As for The Feynman Lectures on Physics (FLP), also mentioned above, please don't forget that Feynman was not their sole author - Matthew Sands and Robert Leighton were also authors of FLP.  In fact the whole project was Matt Sands' idea, and Feynman did none of the actual writing.  If you ever listen to the (commercially available) tapes of the lectures on which the books are based and compare them to what is written in the books you will see that they are by _no means_ merely a transcription. Feynman was incredibly brilliant but sometimes not completely clear - sometimes far from clear - as is the case for most people speaking extemporaneously.  Leighton's and Sands' great contribution to FLP was to "translate 'Feynmanese' into English" (as Leighton jokingly puts it in his Oral History at the Caltech Archives), and they did a great job, though they are rarely recognized for it.]</p>
<p>Michael A. Gottlieb<br />
Physics Department<br />
California Institute of Technology</p>
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		<title>By: Adrian Burd</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adrian Burd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 11:46:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, as someone has already mentioned, Feynman obviously has the ability to stir the pot from beyond the grave. And to be honest, I&#039;m quite astonished at the quality of the comments written here. People are people!

#53, Your post is equally valid if one were to interchange the words &quot;men&quot; and &quot;women&quot; throughout. I would also suggest that neither is less common than the other.

#50, as people grow older, their outlook on life changes as do the qualities they look for in a partner

Having worked at two large, but good, public universities I&#039;ve seen more than my share of talented young women diverted from working in the science by.....other women (this is apparently a large issue in mathematics and was pointed out to me by a woman mathematics professor who was despairing of the situation).

There are also talented individuals of both sexes that go onto great careers with or without hostile/encouraging environments/mentors etc.

As for Feynman, he can no longer defend himself or give a rationale for his behavior. My suspicion, on having read a large chunk of his writings, is that he was continually pushing the limits to see what he could get away with, or as others have pointed out here, to see exactly how cherished these beliefs of others really are - but maybe I&#039;ve been watching too much House and Boston Legal.

So, I would respectfully  suggest that people treat others with respect (if it is deserved) and just grow up!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, as someone has already mentioned, Feynman obviously has the ability to stir the pot from beyond the grave. And to be honest, I&#8217;m quite astonished at the quality of the comments written here. People are people!</p>
<p>#53, Your post is equally valid if one were to interchange the words &#8220;men&#8221; and &#8220;women&#8221; throughout. I would also suggest that neither is less common than the other.</p>
<p>#50, as people grow older, their outlook on life changes as do the qualities they look for in a partner</p>
<p>Having worked at two large, but good, public universities I&#8217;ve seen more than my share of talented young women diverted from working in the science by&#8230;..other women (this is apparently a large issue in mathematics and was pointed out to me by a woman mathematics professor who was despairing of the situation).</p>
<p>There are also talented individuals of both sexes that go onto great careers with or without hostile/encouraging environments/mentors etc.</p>
<p>As for Feynman, he can no longer defend himself or give a rationale for his behavior. My suspicion, on having read a large chunk of his writings, is that he was continually pushing the limits to see what he could get away with, or as others have pointed out here, to see exactly how cherished these beliefs of others really are &#8211; but maybe I&#8217;ve been watching too much House and Boston Legal.</p>
<p>So, I would respectfully  suggest that people treat others with respect (if it is deserved) and just grow up!</p>
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		<title>By: teadrinker</title>
		<link>http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/cosmicvariance/2008/05/30/charming/comment-page-1/#comment-40138</link>
		<dc:creator>teadrinker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 15:31:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Antonio, the answer to why people pick people who have
power and looks over personality and intelligence (read niceness) is simple:  We are still just monkeys with car keys.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Antonio, the answer to why people pick people who have<br />
power and looks over personality and intelligence (read niceness) is simple:  We are still just monkeys with car keys.</p>
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		<title>By: Antonio</title>
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		<dc:creator>Antonio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 21:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(delurking)

Kordan said:
              &quot;It’s funny how women always claim they want a nice,
                sensitive, and understanding guy - but the younger
                ones especially (such as in college) almost always
                seem to go for the big macho jerks.

                Then they whine and cry about how cruel and insensitive
                all men are - go figure.&quot;

Of course no one can ever rely solely on an individuals spoken claims; actions speak louder then words. I can dig the study up for you if you&#039;d like, but I remember a psychology paper that tested womens actual preferences (using speed dating, it&#039;s weak but it&#039;s the best we have) and sure enough it supported the nice guy stereotype! The women ended up liking more men that scored low on agreeableness, which I think would roughly correlate with niceness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(delurking)</p>
<p>Kordan said:<br />
              &#8220;It’s funny how women always claim they want a nice,<br />
                sensitive, and understanding guy &#8211; but the younger<br />
                ones especially (such as in college) almost always<br />
                seem to go for the big macho jerks.</p>
<p>                Then they whine and cry about how cruel and insensitive<br />
                all men are &#8211; go figure.&#8221;</p>
<p>Of course no one can ever rely solely on an individuals spoken claims; actions speak louder then words. I can dig the study up for you if you&#8217;d like, but I remember a psychology paper that tested womens actual preferences (using speed dating, it&#8217;s weak but it&#8217;s the best we have) and sure enough it supported the nice guy stereotype! The women ended up liking more men that scored low on agreeableness, which I think would roughly correlate with niceness.</p>
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		<title>By: anonfemalesci</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonfemalesci</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 20:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are approximately two types of sexism among older males.  There are the men who can still treat you with respect (most) of the time, who can engage with you on science, who can be interested to talk and to hear what you have to say.  And, they occasionally say the &#039;wrong&#039; thing or ask for coffee because of a generational issue about perception and roles.  This is different from the older, creepy, leering or hating men, who never really engage with women or consider them equals, and with whom one gets the sense that there is a type of hatred or chip on the shoulder about women.  I am more willing to excuse the former than the latter.  The problem is the men of all ages who really do actually hate women on some level, usually due to personal issues with relationships, sex, female relatives, and so on.  There is the sexism that comes from societal conditioning and then there is the sexism that comes from hating women, and they may overlap but there is a difference I have sensed there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are approximately two types of sexism among older males.  There are the men who can still treat you with respect (most) of the time, who can engage with you on science, who can be interested to talk and to hear what you have to say.  And, they occasionally say the &#8216;wrong&#8217; thing or ask for coffee because of a generational issue about perception and roles.  This is different from the older, creepy, leering or hating men, who never really engage with women or consider them equals, and with whom one gets the sense that there is a type of hatred or chip on the shoulder about women.  I am more willing to excuse the former than the latter.  The problem is the men of all ages who really do actually hate women on some level, usually due to personal issues with relationships, sex, female relatives, and so on.  There is the sexism that comes from societal conditioning and then there is the sexism that comes from hating women, and they may overlap but there is a difference I have sensed there.</p>
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		<title>By: Changcho</title>
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		<dc:creator>Changcho</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 20:11:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Haelfix (#43): but the question, of course, is: did she make you that cup of coffee for you?

To teadrinker (#51):  yeah, I saw that, and I agree; that is so warped.

Give this Feynman thing a rest: the man was a genius, let it be.  Isn&#039;t there a Motorhead song that says something like &#039;don&#039;t expect the best if you can&#039;t take the least&#039;?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Haelfix (#43): but the question, of course, is: did she make you that cup of coffee for you?</p>
<p>To teadrinker (#51):  yeah, I saw that, and I agree; that is so warped.</p>
<p>Give this Feynman thing a rest: the man was a genius, let it be.  Isn&#8217;t there a Motorhead song that says something like &#8216;don&#8217;t expect the best if you can&#8217;t take the least&#8217;?</p>
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		<title>By: teadrinker</title>
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		<dc:creator>teadrinker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 19:08:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Even terrorists are having gender issues these days!

Female fundamentalist Muslims are fighting for the
right to be suicide bombers, too, just like their
male counterparts:

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/05/31/world/main4142514.shtml?source=RSSattr=HOME_4142514

Sadly, they only get half as many virgins as the men
do upon a successful detonation - even the afterlife is
just so unfair.

The whole species is just plain warped!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even terrorists are having gender issues these days!</p>
<p>Female fundamentalist Muslims are fighting for the<br />
right to be suicide bombers, too, just like their<br />
male counterparts:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/05/31/world/main4142514.shtml?source=RSSattr=HOME_4142514" rel="nofollow">http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/05/31/world/main4142514.shtml?source=RSSattr=HOME_4142514</a></p>
<p>Sadly, they only get half as many virgins as the men<br />
do upon a successful detonation &#8211; even the afterlife is<br />
just so unfair.</p>
<p>The whole species is just plain warped!</p>
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		<title>By: Kordan the Merciless</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kordan the Merciless</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 18:57:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s funny how women always claim they want a nice,
sensitive, and understanding guy - but the younger
ones especially (such as in college) almost always
seem to go for the big macho jerks.

Then they whine and cry about how cruel and insensitive
all men are - go figure.

Personally I think both genders are two separate
species that happen to have the genetic ability to
mate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s funny how women always claim they want a nice,<br />
sensitive, and understanding guy &#8211; but the younger<br />
ones especially (such as in college) almost always<br />
seem to go for the big macho jerks.</p>
<p>Then they whine and cry about how cruel and insensitive<br />
all men are &#8211; go figure.</p>
<p>Personally I think both genders are two separate<br />
species that happen to have the genetic ability to<br />
mate.</p>
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		<title>By: Petr</title>
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		<dc:creator>Petr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 14:59:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;As for the unfairness of judging him by today’s standards, I don’t go in for that moral relativist bullshit. The hunter-gathers who practice(d) infanticide and child abuse as normative behaviours can only be judged as psychopaths and psychotics...&lt;/blockquote&gt;

... which, perhaps, they were.  Recondite cavemen aside, I&#039;m wondering why your moral relativism trumps mine?

A simple thought experiment:  do you think that &lt;strong&gt;you&lt;/strong&gt;, had you grown up in early 20-th century America, would have been in a position to criticize Feynman (who would then have been your contemporary)?   Think of all the borderline behaviour your present contemporaries engage in... in a generation or two they may be seen as swinish pigs from a bygone era.   What would you say if someone from the future popped into your  life judging you for not standing up to them...?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>As for the unfairness of judging him by today’s standards, I don’t go in for that moral relativist bullshit. The hunter-gathers who practice(d) infanticide and child abuse as normative behaviours can only be judged as psychopaths and psychotics&#8230;</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8230; which, perhaps, they were.  Recondite cavemen aside, I&#8217;m wondering why your moral relativism trumps mine?</p>
<p>A simple thought experiment:  do you think that <strong>you</strong>, had you grown up in early 20-th century America, would have been in a position to criticize Feynman (who would then have been your contemporary)?   Think of all the borderline behaviour your present contemporaries engage in&#8230; in a generation or two they may be seen as swinish pigs from a bygone era.   What would you say if someone from the future popped into your  life judging you for not standing up to them&#8230;?</p>
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