i am a 21 year old and a mother of a beautiful baby boy.he is 5 months old and i love him more than anything.so yes i can understand why most women would want to have children of their own especially when their time is about to run out.however when you say that mapping out what happens to the children after they are born isnt easy that just seems just wrong.we already have more than enough children in this world that have no parents at all and that are born that have disabilities that we need to have the common sense not to do it on purpose.if the chances that the after math of the childrens birth is unknown then the women of this world that are growing close to the end of their children bearing cycles need to use their wisdom and experince towards those who need it now.not just add to the problem.i know that if i ever get the chance to help a child that has had every opportunity for a good life stripped from them back their childhood and give them the opportunities that they deserve i would do it in a heart beat.and so many of these women have that chance.this is one of the main problems with the united states and i think that the women of this world need to step up and do what they all know that they can do and help.if we keep on adding to the problem who are we to feel bad when we see these poor children on the streets or in these foster homes when we arent doing anything about it!